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// May 14th, 2009 // Blog


My colleagues are never at a loss for words. My friends and family? Don’t get me started. At my aunt’s funeral on Tuesday, the door to the viewing room had to be closed because we were making such a ruckus. Why, then, are people who have an opinion on every agenda item, dinner topic, or subway conversation, reluctant to comment online? I find this fascinating.
More people now use social media than email. Yet most social media users tend to engage on a more passive level. Take this blog, for instance. I write it mostly for friends and family seeking a trusted guide to all things social media. I know you’re visiting and reading because you tell me so via Facebook, Twitter, email — and the rare blog comment.
While I’d love to know if you agree or disagree with what I write, I don’t take it personally if you don’t comment. I get that a lot of you are here to gather information on subjects you’re not yet confident discussing. And I’m flattered that you think I have something worth learning. Still, feel free to weigh in on anything written here. And to share your thoughts wherever you go on the “social web”. Because as much as we all enjoy sharing our thoughts, we also love hearing yours.

9 Responses to “No Comment”

  1. glasgowdick says:
    May 14, 2009 at 10:12 AM

    I hear you.
    I wish more people would take the time to comment.
    I try and stir the pot every day. But most people are content to let it simmer on the burner. Wow, what a weak metaphor.

    Hope you’re well.

  2. Mark V. says:
    May 14, 2009 at 11:16 AM

    Rebecca, all your friends are closets voyeurs. And a few of us are occasional extroverts.

  3. TwoFab/SF says:
    May 14, 2009 at 1:05 PM

    I can relate..I think fb, twitter, etc. are more convenient. On FB, it’s easy and efficient, a lot of people have most or all of their friends or contacts there, plus you can always leave a super-quick thumbs-up.. kind-of like one-stop-shopping.I believe that a lot of people don’t even know what to do with a blog..hard to believe, especially given our industry, but I’ve been told this, which is why Kelly and I decided to spell it out for visitors in our blog’s sidebar. Leaving comments on blogs, unless you have an established relationship or ongoing dialogue with the person, seems too much of a commitment for a lot of people… or maybe just a bit too much of a time zap. I think you’ll see a huge increase with comments once the technology is developed for voice recognition, which is what i’m waiting for.

  4. Mark says:
    May 14, 2009 at 2:02 PM

    I have two comments. And no I’m not just trying to catch up. The first is that there just isn’t enough time. I now feel I’m juggling so many ‘friends’ that you can only respond to a few things here and there. My second thought is that this is great news. People talk too much as it is. What’s that saying about listening isn’t waiting for your turn to speak. For me, I love to be able to just check in on people I respect, or not, and just listen for a change.

  5. Volunteer For A Cause says:
    May 26, 2009 at 4:39 AM

    True Rebbecca, first of all I joined your site n u didn’t join mine, now your post accuses you, What do you have to say?

  6. REBECCA RIVERA says:
    May 26, 2009 at 12:50 PM

    Paul,
    Thanks for following me.
    I’m now returning the favor.
    rr

  7. REBECCA RIVERA says:
    May 26, 2009 at 12:52 PM

    Mark M.,
    It is true that it’s hard to listen with your mouth open.
    rr

  8. Volunteer For A Cause says:
    May 27, 2009 at 1:35 AM

    Thank you Rebbecca, Am an avid reader of your work BTW, HAVE FUN!

  9. kevaplew says:
    December 13, 2009 at 7:21 AM

    I should email my friend about your post.

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